She is RAIN

She is RAIN

Sunday, June 13, 2010

=) again

my friend said to me...friend like balloon..once you let it wouldn't come, I'm gonna keep it and tie it into my heart...but love? it sweet like cakes...people love to taste it..but in the end of it...who knows??it was cycle...we eat it..and our stomach full with sweetness..imagine what I'm trying to say here...that was my friend perception and so do i...

what love stand for..??did you really know what it is..?
like what i know from the past are..
LOVE is not in...

Possessiveness is not love
Jealousy is not love
Lust is not love
Fear is not love
Keeping people all to yourself is not love
Expecting something from someone is not love

To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future cause people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is MY girlfriend/boyfriend/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling "proud" to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what. But it hard too agree right? When someone that you knew before this especially your lover slowly being change and not same as before. Maybe you will think that your partner exactly change inside and outside too. There no words we can make it turn into the basic again, cause it all depend to the person who want to facing it. In order to truly understand love, you must first forget everything you have ever learned about it from anyone else (including what I just said). You are the only person who can tell you what love is. The only reason I’m writing all this stuff is because people always try to find “love” in with things like dating, relationships and all that. You can’t make any sense of it if you keep doing that. You have to get rid of everything you think you know first. Letting go is hard thing to do in loving somebody.But, it just tradition when there have no solution in relationship..goodnight guys.